View Full Version : My take on why parents should not enrol their kids in schools like UP, ADMU and DLSU
mandennis
Mar 16, 2005, 09:22 AM
i have read the posts made in the "Academe" thread and contributed some posts (or opinions) of my own. i've seen the school bashing that's becoming nastier and nastier. these coming from people who claim their school is the best in the land.
However, after have read the posts here for some time, i have come to a personal conclusion that if i have a son or daughter, i will not enrol them in schools like UP, ADMU and DLSU. Why? i do not want them to turn into some of the nicks here who have serious character flaws and really need professional help. just imagine, being so mayabang, dishonest and prejudicial for superficial stuff like the achievements of their schools of which they do not have any part of its success, and discredting or downplaying the accomplishments of other schools can be their undoing at some point. kahit na they are considered the "big three," kung ganyan din naman ang kauuwian ng mga anak ko, if i have any, 'di bale na lang.
Paris CAC
Mar 16, 2005, 09:27 AM
Hasty generalization. I don't want to sound mayabang, but I think you should realize that there are good and bad tomnatoes even in ethe most prestigious universities in tehe world. Harvard, Oxford, ANU, name it, these unis have also their share of not-so good students but it does not affect their long established academic reputation anyway.
KuyaDanny
Mar 16, 2005, 09:41 AM
I think you can still consider these schools for your children. Just remember who those bashers are and make sure your kids stay away from them. :lol:
paralusi
Mar 16, 2005, 09:56 AM
i find it sad that you still have to decide for your kids as to where they would go for their higher education. especially, if your primary criterion is what people in an internet forum are saying.
mr. yotsuya
Mar 16, 2005, 11:00 AM
those type of people exist wherever school you may send your kids too. teach them good manners and they should be ok. no need to deprive them of the best education available.
Limasawa
Mar 16, 2005, 12:46 PM
I graduated from La Salle but I wouldn't enroll my children in there or Ateneo. If its ok with them I'd prefer them to study in UP. Yes its true, bashers simply ride with the accomplishments of their alumni with them having none of their own. Successful people I know don't even care about their alma mater.
While the rest of us wait for that lucky break, the rest of us will feel good bashing other schools and hard selling our alma mater to convince ourselves that we studied in the right institution.
Besides, di niyo ba napansin? Ang boring na ng UAAP ever since DLSU and ADMU entered into peace pacts. A great number of alumni are clamoring for DLSU and ADMU to return to NCAA. Boring daw ng UAAP.
KuyaDanny
Mar 16, 2005, 01:09 PM
Yes its true, bashers simply ride with the accomplishments of their alumni with them having none of their own. Successful people I know don't even care about their alma mater.
You are a wise person.
rave
Mar 16, 2005, 01:09 PM
The bashers here are just a loud minority. You could even count them by your fingers. Compare this puny number with the schools' total populations and you will see that they are very, very, insignificant -- in every sense of the word.
Don't worry about your kids being swayed by negative external influences. As long as you are there as parents guiding them on what is wrong and right, I don't think there would be any problem.
Limasawa
Mar 16, 2005, 02:54 PM
In fact, you can hardly hear the word "Ateneo" or anything of that sort inside La Salle - Manila except for a few geeks in its Pep Squad.
lucent1425
Mar 16, 2005, 03:05 PM
I graduated from La Salle but I wouldn't enroll my children in there or Ateneo. If its ok with them I'd prefer them to study in UP. Yes its true, bashers simply ride with the accomplishments of their alumni with them having none of their own. Successful people I know don't even care about their alma mater.
While the rest of us wait for that lucky break, the rest of us will feel good bashing other schools and hard selling our alma mater to convince ourselves that we studied in the right institution.
Besides, di niyo ba napansin? Ang boring na ng UAAP ever since DLSU and ADMU entered into peace pacts. A great number of alumni are clamoring for DLSU and ADMU to return to NCAA. Boring daw ng UAAP.
bakit naman napasama ang UAAP sa usapan, kaya nga UAAP, UNIversities at hindi NCAA, National Collegiate, ano ba 'yan ! kung boring ang UAAP dapat hindi napupuno ang Araneta pag may ADMU-DLSU match.
hindi kawalan ang anak mo kahit hindi siya mag-aral sa Big Three, sa public school mo na lang pag-aralin, makakamura ka pa, kainis 'tong mga post na ganito
:eyecrazy:
tianak_me
Mar 16, 2005, 03:10 PM
However, after have read the posts here for some time, i have come to a personal conclusion that if i have a son or daughter, i will not enrol them in schools like UP, ADMU and DLSU....'di bale na lang.
Hah! A lot of good that'll do your kids. :rolleyes:
Limasawa
Mar 16, 2005, 04:43 PM
bakit naman napasama ang UAAP sa usapan, kaya nga UAAP, UNIversities at hindi NCAA, National Collegiate, ano ba 'yan ! kung boring ang UAAP dapat hindi napupuno ang Araneta pag may ADMU-DLSU match.
hindi kawalan ang anak mo kahit hindi siya mag-aral sa Big Three, sa public school mo na lang pag-aralin, makakamura ka pa, kainis 'tong mga post na ganito
:eyecrazy:
Inis ka pala eh so bakit ka pa na nag-aksaya ng panahon magreply? Hindi mo maiintindihan ang connection ng UAAP sa usapan kasi distance ng horizons mo from the epicenter of your small brain is barely an inch. Beyond that is incomprehendible to you. Kala mo lang yon na marami na yung tao sa Araneta during DLSU-ADMU match kasi nga limited yung horizons mo. You can't see the action past it.
lucent1425
Mar 16, 2005, 05:56 PM
Inis ka pala eh so bakit ka pa na nag-aksaya ng panahon magreply? Hindi mo maiintindihan ang connection ng UAAP sa usapan kasi distance ng horizons mo from the epicenter of your small brain is barely an inch. Beyond that is incomprehendible to you. Kala mo lang yon na marami na yung tao sa Araneta during DLSU-ADMU match kasi nga limited yung horizons mo. You can't see the action past it.
horizons mo mukha mo, Lasalista ka nga, feeling talaga sa lahat ng bagay, I'm sure mahina rin ang ulo ng anak mo, mana sa 'yo kaya kahit sa public school hindi tatanggapin 'yan.
Isama ba ang UAAP sa usapan, ano ba 'yan, walang kalogic-logic, grabe, Lasalista nga, mga ewan kasi
epicenter of my brain, ano ang utak ko, sukatan ng earthquake ? pwede ba, huwag kang pasaway.
wala ka sigurong pambili ng ticket sa ADMU-DLSU games kaya hindi ka nanonood, napaka-plastic mo eh yung ngang mga alumni ng both schools, nakikita mong tumatayo at pumapalakpak, ikaw pa kaya, sino ka ba ?
dirt_lap
Mar 16, 2005, 06:22 PM
horizons mo mukha mo, Lasalista ka nga, feeling talaga sa lahat ng bagay, I'm sure mahina rin ang ulo ng anak mo, mana sa 'yo kaya kahit sa public school hindi tatanggapin 'yan.
Isama ba ang UAAP sa usapan, ano ba 'yan, walang kalogic-logic, grabe, Lasalista nga, mga ewan kasi
epicenter of my brain, ano ang utak ko, sukatan ng earthquake ? pwede ba, huwag kang pasaway.
wala ka sigurong pambili ng ticket sa ADMU-DLSU games kaya hindi ka nanonood, napaka-plastic mo eh yung ngang mga alumni ng both schools, nakikita mong tumatayo at pumapalakpak, ikaw pa kaya, sino ka ba ?
^such a tactless argument...i pity you. :glee:
ready2go
Mar 20, 2005, 03:38 PM
these bashers are, as rave said, the loud minority
and in any case, you should let your kids decide for themselves which university or college they want to enroll in :up:
r2g :coolhat:
ready2go
Mar 20, 2005, 03:45 PM
Inis ka pala eh so bakit ka pa na nag-aksaya ng panahon magreply? Hindi mo maiintindihan ang connection ng UAAP sa usapan kasi distance ng horizons mo from the epicenter of your small brain is barely an inch. Beyond that is incomprehendible to you. Kala mo lang yon na marami na yung tao sa Araneta during DLSU-ADMU match kasi nga limited yung horizons mo. You can't see the action past it.
biglang nagkaroon ng earthquake sa epicenter of my brain nung binasa ko ito... incomprehendible sakin ang logic mo 'pre :lol:
sunspot101
Mar 20, 2005, 08:06 PM
edi huwag mo i-enroll yung anak mo.
simple as that.
as if it would be a loss to the three universities.
:diablo:
aieka
Mar 20, 2005, 10:25 PM
If you base your judgments and conclusions on posts here in Pex, then I truly pity your children. Ang kitid ng sakop ng kaisipan mo eh.
atenean_blooded
Mar 21, 2005, 03:46 AM
You're thinking of not sending your children to the Ateneo, UP, or La Salle because of Pinoy Exchange?
Wow. Talk about impact.
treefingers
Mar 22, 2005, 08:44 PM
bakit, sinasabihan ka ba na i enroll mo anak mo sa mga schools na yun? :rolleyes:
i have read the posts made in the "Academe" thread and contributed some posts (or opinions) of my own. i've seen the school bashing that's becoming nastier and nastier. these coming from people who claim their school is the best in the land.
However, after have read the posts here for some time, i have come to a personal conclusion that if i have a son or daughter, i will not enrol them in schools like UP, ADMU and DLSU. Why? i do not want them to turn into some of the nicks here who have serious character flaws and really need professional help. just imagine, being so mayabang, dishonest and prejudicial for superficial stuff like the achievements of their schools of which they do not have any part of its success, and discredting or downplaying the accomplishments of other schools can be their undoing at some point. kahit na they are considered the "big three," kung ganyan din naman ang kauuwian ng mga anak ko, if i have any, 'di bale na lang.
intensity1214.
Mar 22, 2005, 11:08 PM
atenistas are afraid of the threadstarter's basing his/her 'judgments and conclusions' on pex.
good, at least atenistas are aware of how bad ateneo's pex reputation is. :naughty:
jeremy_79
Mar 23, 2005, 01:47 AM
hahaha.nakakatawa naman tong thread na to.
tama si atenean_blooded,dahil lang sa school bashing sa PEX,you're thinking of not sending your kids to UP,ADMU and La Salle???????WTF!!! unang una,gaya ni paralusi,i think its best kung sila mismo magdedecide kung saang school sila papasok.pangalawa,kahit naman gustuhin nila,are you sure they'd be good enough para pumasa sa entrance exams ng mga schools na to?
mapa-UP,ADMU o La Salle man yan,its natural na maging proud sa school mo,to always talk about sikat na alumni,to the extent na inaalipusta mo na ibang school.pataasan lang naman talaga yan ng ihi.kung di mo matagalan ganung klaseng usapan,di ka naman pinipilit pumasok sa thread na to.para kang yung viewer ng Fear Factor na dinemanda mga producers ng show kase daw tumaas blood pressure niya ,etc nung nakita niya may mga kumain ng osterized na daga.
you know what,ganyan lang feeling mo kase you were never in one of these schools.its either jinajustify mo lang yung inability mo na makapasok sa mga schools na to or natatakot ka na baka mainsecure ka sa mga anak mo just in case they get in these schools.as a parent,of course gusto natin na our kids look up to us.
wag mong seryosohin mga posts dito sa PEX.pagtawanan mo na lang.yung mga namba-bash naman,usually yung mga nagkakaproblema sa acads.hehehe.they're just convincing themselves na fit sila sa good school na napasukan nila.hehehe.
jeremy_79
Mar 23, 2005, 03:40 AM
^taga UP ako.but ive nothing against ateneans.and i dont really enjoy school bashing.and even if i wanted to be in ateneo or la salle,my parents could not afford it.which is common for most UP students.fortunately, i never had to apply for that STFAP. pero sa totoo lang,if we had the money,i might have considered going to ateneo.
walang kinalaman ang choice of school sa intellect ng isang tao.pano kung nagPhD sa Ateneo o La Salle ang isang UP grad?nagiging bobo ba siya? (di po ako nagpiPhD at either school).
basta alam ko,kahit saang school man ako napunta,matalino ako.:naughty:
wag na tayong magkunwari, napupunta tayo sa isang school di lang dahil sa katalinuhan ( admission) ,but there are other factors like our parents' ability to support us,being with friends,security/privacy ( lalo na sa mga anak ng politicians and tycoons,mga celebrities),etc.
hahaha,ang layo na sa topic.anyway,basta masaya ako,di ako diniktahan ng parents ko kung saan ako magka-college.and fortunately,nakaya naman nila akong suportahan financially (as if naman ang mahal sa peyups) sa school na gusto ko.
and no amount of PEX forum school bashing can make me think of not wanting my kids to get the kind of education they would want.mapa-UP,ADMU,o La Salle man yan. actually kahit AMA.:naughty:
nakakatawa rin yung observation mo na pag di UP ang una pag ini-enumerate yung 3 schools ay bading yung nagpost. :no:
nagkataon lang siguro na taga ADMU yung nagpost kaya ADMU inuna niya.unless kilala mo siya.hahaha.pero that's not enough para mag-generalize ka tol.
tama na yang mga sarcastic comments kasi.wala naman kayong maco-convince anyway.lahat tayo loyals sa mga schools natin.but we dont have to laugh at/give rude remarks at other schools just to show it.
sigurado ba kayong proud mga schools nyo sa inyo???
ang tanong: meron nga bang matalinong bata na gusto mag-aral sa Ateneo kung pumasa sa UP o La Salle?????????????? :naughty: :no:
jeremy_79
Mar 23, 2005, 03:43 AM
hahaha.loyals daw o.saka i assumed na kapag naadmit e,matalino.as if naman walang mga nagpapalakad kay ninong,ninang,auntie,etc.
jeremy_79
Mar 23, 2005, 09:53 PM
hahaha.bobo mo naman.sinabi na ngang taga UP eh.saka wala akong sinabing nakapasok ako sa ateneo.i said,we could not afford it kaya nga ni ACET di ako kumuha.
obviously,di ka taga UP.kase sa UP, we say ***** not itits.bwahaha.saka ang linaw talaga ng sinabi ko para di mo magets eh.
waaaaaaaa.... hilig mo sa lakaran. siguro nilakad ka lang kaya ka nakapasok sa ateneo. waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... :lol:
intensity1214.
Mar 23, 2005, 09:57 PM
upian vs. upian.
ano ba 'yan.
:)
mandennis
Mar 23, 2005, 10:23 PM
So far, the posts here (not all) really prove my point.
wichita_kansas1
Mar 23, 2005, 11:04 PM
upian vs. upian.
ano ba 'yan.
:)
masa laban sa masa.
wichita_kansas1
Mar 23, 2005, 11:07 PM
i have read the posts made in the "Academe" thread and contributed some posts (or opinions) of my own. i've seen the school bashing that's becoming nastier and nastier. these coming from people who claim their school is the best in the land.
However, after have read the posts here for some time, i have come to a personal conclusion that if i have a son or daughter, i will not enrol them in schools like UP, ADMU and DLSU. Why? i do not want them to turn into some of the nicks here who have serious character flaws and really need professional help. just imagine, being so mayabang, dishonest and prejudicial for superficial stuff like the achievements of their schools of which they do not have any part of its success, and discredting or downplaying the accomplishments of other schools can be their undoing at some point. kahit na they are considered the "big three," kung ganyan din naman ang kauuwian ng mga anak ko, if i have any, 'di bale na lang.
if you love your kids, send them to lasalle! pa banjing banjing ang buhay dun. party every weekend and yet makakakuha pa din ng mataas na grades, kahit ga-munggo ang utak ng anak mo.
;) sa totoo lang. ;
jeremy_79
Mar 24, 2005, 02:43 AM
di naman tayo sigurado kung taga UP nga yang itits_KUYADAN na yan eh.and it doesnt matter kahit na taga UP pa siya.nde naman porke schoolmate mo kakampihan mo kahit mali ginagawa/sinasabi.
kinuwestiyon pa pagka-isko ko.hahaha.
mandennis,kahit ano pang away/walang kwentang sagutan mabasa mo dito,di pa rin justified ang point mo.
masa laban sa masa.
monicka
Mar 24, 2005, 01:08 PM
mandennis, pardon me but how long exactly have you been surfing the internet?
Warning lang po, when you receive an email from a Zimbabwe businessman claiming that he needs you to help him transfer millions of pesos into the Philippines and asking you to send him your bank account number, scam po iyun. Huwag po kayo maniwala.
At kung may pop-up po kayong nakita na sinasabing "Your computer has been infected with spyware!" wag po kayo mag-click doon. Trast mi.
quapalz
Mar 24, 2005, 03:53 PM
Here's my take on about this topic.
Yes, it is an established fact that there are indeed bashers on all schools. Yes, sometimes we get so taken in with the bad publicity that some rumor-mongers spread around a particular school then *bam*! You don't want to go there. Why is that?
And yes, I agree. The success of the person does not come from where he studied, but from what he alone achieved. The school can only be proud of alumnus, but they cannot say that they alone have molded that individual.
mr. yotsuya
Mar 24, 2005, 04:03 PM
Here's my take on about this topic.
Yes, it is an established fact that there are indeed bashers on all schools. Yes, sometimes we get so taken in with the bad publicity that some rumor-mongers spread around a particular school then *bam*! You don't want to go there. Why is that?
And yes, I agree. The success of the person does not come from where he studied, but from what he alone achieved. The school can only be proud of alumnus, but they cannot say that they alone have molded that individual.
^excellent point. its in the individual pa rin no matter what school he came from.
jeremy_79
Mar 24, 2005, 11:15 PM
hahaha.naging atenean pa ko bigla.itits,alam mo ba ang AS 101,CASAA,ang EPN,STS,KNL,SC,KRH,SAREHA,Rodics,etc. at kilala mo ba si mang mon sa AS walk,si manang sa Pilar Herrera,?hahaha
quapalz,tama ka.
atenista ako at ikaw din. klaro naman na atenista ka at kunwari ka pang taga UP. mga posts lahat kabobohan. walang ganyang taga UP. :crazytongue:
jeremy_79
Mar 25, 2005, 07:33 AM
sinabi ko sa previous post ko na di ako nagtake ng ACET.paano ako papasa sa exam na di ko kinuha? :lol:
i dont have to convince you anyway.besides,assuming di ako tagaUP,ganun pa rin naman opinion ko about mandennis's topic.which is the topic of this thread.
ano bang mapapala ko kung magpretend akong tagaUP?meron bang special treatment dito sa PEX kung taga UP ka?kung magpre-pretend ako,as an atenean siguro.pero malamang magkakalat ako.i dont know anything about that school except ACET. :naughty:
tumigil ka na.napaghahalata IQ mo.wag kang mag-alala.kung taga ADMU ka man,mataas pa rin tingin ko sa school mo kahit taga dun ka. :glee:
ha ha! anyone knows those stuffs. kalat na yan sa ibang schools pretender. style mo bulok. so anong next declaration mo: hindi ako pumasa sa ACET kaya ako nag UP... :glee:
style mo bulok! :lol:
pretender
basher
impostor!
jeremy_79
Mar 25, 2005, 07:38 AM
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-kakajoin mo lang kasi sa PEX kaya ganyan ka.or malamang,sa kabastusan mo,banned mga ibang nicks mo kaya napilitan kang gumawa ng bago.haha.
nick pa lang,baboy na eh.whew!! if this is what you call bashing,basher nga siguro ako.:glee:
ha ha! anyone knows those stuffs. kalat na yan sa ibang schools pretender. style mo bulok. so anong next declaration mo: hindi ako pumasa sa ACET kaya ako nag UP... :glee:
style mo bulok! :lol:
pretender
basher
impostor!
queen_of_taft
Mar 25, 2005, 06:02 PM
^ mga posts mo, kabobohan talaga. lumabas din na alternick ka. bwahahaha..... isa kang atenista nagpapanggap na taga UP. another alternick na walang magawa kung hindi siraan ang UP (at La Salle). wuuuuuuuuuuu.... sino niloko mo? utot mo! :lol::lol:
:D ang dami ngang atenistang mapag panggap! graveh!
MacTurd
Mar 25, 2005, 10:51 PM
^taga UP ako.but ive nothing against ateneans.and i dont really enjoy school bashing.and even if i wanted to be in ateneo or la salle,my parents could not afford it.which is common for most UP students.fortunately, i never had to apply for that STFAP. pero sa totoo lang,if we had the money,i might have considered going to ateneo.
walang kinalaman ang choice of school sa intellect ng isang tao.pano kung nagPhD sa Ateneo o La Salle ang isang UP grad?nagiging bobo ba siya? (di po ako nagpiPhD at either school).
basta alam ko,kahit saang school man ako napunta,matalino ako.:naughty:
wag na tayong magkunwari, napupunta tayo sa isang school di lang dahil sa katalinuhan ( admission) ,but there are other factors like our parents' ability to support us,being with friends,security/privacy ( lalo na sa mga anak ng politicians and tycoons,mga celebrities),etc.
hahaha,ang layo na sa topic.anyway,basta masaya ako,di ako diniktahan ng parents ko kung saan ako magka-college.and fortunately,nakaya naman nila akong suportahan financially (as if naman ang mahal sa peyups) sa school na gusto ko.
and no amount of PEX forum school bashing can make me think of not wanting my kids to get the kind of education they would want.mapa-UP,ADMU,o La Salle man yan. actually kahit AMA.:naughty:
nakakatawa rin yung observation mo na pag di UP ang una pag ini-enumerate yung 3 schools ay bading yung nagpost. :no:
nagkataon lang siguro na taga ADMU yung nagpost kaya ADMU inuna niya.unless kilala mo siya.hahaha.pero that's not enough para mag-generalize ka tol.
tama na yang mga sarcastic comments kasi.wala naman kayong maco-convince anyway.lahat tayo loyals sa mga schools natin.but we dont have to laugh at/give rude remarks at other schools just to show it.
sigurado ba kayong proud mga schools nyo sa inyo???
:no:
I admire your honesty. The more secure and level-headed UPians can be truly proud of you. You're an Atenean trapped in a UPian's body. I hope there are more people like you --- willing to stand up for your beliefs despite controversies promulgated by the other bashers (especially the insecure ACET rejects who claim to be from UP/Warwick kuno).
Good luck to you. May you prosper and succeed so that you can send your offsprings to the Ateneo, "The Harvard, MIT and Oxbridge of the Orient."
jeremy_79
Mar 26, 2005, 06:58 AM
thanks.i dont really know why they insist that im an Atenean.siguro pag sinabi kong taga ADMU ako,sasabihin nila taga UP ako pretending to be from Ateneo.
about the alternick,this account is 3 years ago pa.nakalimutan ko na nga eh.naalala ko lang when American Idol started and peyups.com people keep talking about pics sa PEX AI4 forum.tingnan nyo,la pa 100 posts.may alternick bang 3 years ago pa nag-e-exist?
so sinong fake ngayon?
I admire your honesty. The more secure and level-headed UPians can be truly proud of you. You're an Atenean trapped in a UPian's body. I hope there are more people like you --- willing to stand up for your beliefs despite controversies promulgated by the other bashers (especially the insecure ACET rejects who claim to be from UP/Warwick kuno).
Good luck to you. May you prosper and succeed so that you can send your offsprings to the Ateneo, "The Harvard, MIT and Oxbridge of the Orient."
Stirling
Mar 26, 2005, 08:24 AM
itits mo kuyadanny, alternick nga yan si jeremy_79 pero hindi sya taga Ateneo, taga UST sya. alternick nya rin yung si bading na popwinter, intensity1214 at etc. basta yung bakla na mahilig sa spelling, english, grammar, cheering, oldest na ganito, oldest na ganyan. basta lahat ng kabaklaan at paninira ng UP sya yan. sana ma ban na yan.
jeremy_79
Mar 28, 2005, 11:44 AM
hahaha.di na talaga ako tinantanan.tanungin nyo na lang kaya moderators.nag-aaksaya lang kayo ng oras.
itits mo kuyadanny, alternick nga yan si jeremy_79 pero hindi sya taga Ateneo, taga UST sya. alternick nya rin yung si bading na popwinter, intensity1214 at etc. basta yung bakla na mahilig sa spelling, english, grammar, cheering, oldest na ganito, oldest na ganyan. basta lahat ng kabaklaan at paninira ng UP sya yan. sana ma ban na yan.
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